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With the onset of the the new year, I’ve been working with patients trying to find ways to instill mindfulness in their daily lives. The problem is people think taking time out to meditate for a few minutes is enough to stay calm and not let stress get to them. Not true. Stress is all around us. It is chipping away at our health and taking down our quality of life. A five minute meditation each night isn’t enough to offset what stress does to us.

Mediation is a way of life. Its the way we handle our moments in real time- not making a mess all day and cleaning it up for a few minutes at night. So what can we do to get mindfulness better ingrained into our daily routine?

Here’s something I’ve found to be easy- Every time you have to put the passcode in your phone, stop and take a deep breath to your lower abdomen. That’s it. It’s just enough to pop in the clutch and step out of the daily wave of events one moment at a time. Slowly, it starts to build a habit of awareness and teaches us how we can stop the world and check in regularly with ourselves. This isn’t rocket science but slow and steady is the way of peace.

One thing to note is that you should change your passcode so that there is a new mental cue for you every time you check your phone. There’s nothing like old habits to pull us into our old trances.

Try it out and let me know how it goes.

Dr. Dale Archer is a charismatic psychiatrist who’s got a lot to say about education and the idea of what is considered “normal” in America today. We discussed anxiety, depression, education, and ADHD among many other things. He’s a delightful man and is really great to listen to. Here’s the archived show:

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I had a great opportunity to speak with Dr. Hyla Cass today on Well.Org radio. We spoke about wellness, the importance of lifestyle, herbs, supplements, gut health, gluten allergies, probiotics, and much more. Enjoy!



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Everybody talks about Complementary and Alternative Medicine in different ways. It seems like we’ve all got our opinions and they are all over the map at times. One “slogan”, if you will, that I see tagged to this type of medicine is the famous- “Mind, Body, Spirit” line. I want to delve into the meaning of this because I have patients walking in claiming they want “wellness” throwing around these phrases haphzarardly.

The essence of the Mind, Body, Spirit argument hinges on the idea that, in order to be well and whole, we need to be healthy in each of these areas and that each area feeds into the others…engendering more wellness for the entire system.  Let’s start with the easy one first- Body.

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If we could all live on a dream beach somewhere in the tropics, would we still have stress? Most people believe that the answer to this is “No”, but I would have to disagree. Sure, we’d be pretty good for a couple of weeks- maybe even a month bu then what? We’ll have dragged our busy minds along with us and, after a short amount of time, will be loading old thoughts, emotions, and memories that have been plaguing us for years.

How does this stress get booted in so easily?  Think of a computer. We have our operating system and then we have applications. If we get a good night’s sleep, we generally tend to wake up with a free desktop. What happens then? We start opening windows. We click application after application, trying to load everything at once. Within the first hour or two, we have too many windows open and things are starting to hang up. Our system slows down and we are diverting valuable resources to the multiple open windows and have precious little left for our immunity.

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Stress, anxiety, and depression are all symptoms of disconnection to our inner source of peace and tranquility. Here, Pedram discusses how it is through our loss of connection with nature that we have become fixated on abstract concepts and separated ourselves from our original connection with nature.

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Talking about life and time management with Alberto Villoldo, I had a chance to get a brief story from him about how he deals with time.  As I had mentioned in a previous post, time management is event management.  This is for people who are looking to learn about how to manage their affairs better.  In this conversation, Alberto Villodo and I speak about another aspect of this- what about when you have time to waste?

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Time Management is an art of Event Management.  When we become conscious of the events we commit to in life, we learn that we are the ones who have allowed the stress in.  In the video above, Pedram discusses some of the main hangups people have and how people will get into trouble by not realistically managing their expectations of themselves. Time Management is an art and it requires awareness of what we are signing on to.  Setting priorities in life and establishing value for the important people in our lives will help us navigate these waters much better.

Anxiety, depression, and stress are all byproducts of our inability to negotiate our interface with time well.  Learning to meditate and do yoga or qi gong is helpful but it is impossible to offset the root of the stress which leads to the anxiety and depression without effective understanding of time management.  This, again, should be more accurately called event management!

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Anxiety and Depression are taking over in the modern era.  Teenage depression has been increasing at alarming rates and parents are panicking about what to do about it.  Many are racing to psychiatrists asking for drugs while others are searching for more natural approaches.  Either way, parents are looking for answers because nobody wants to see their kids suffer.  So why teenage depression?

Well, let’s think about it for a minute.  These kids are being raised in a hectic, chaotic world where nothing makes sense yet they are being forced to fit in, finish their didactic homework, dress nice, and put a smile on their faces.  Heck, I’d be depressed too!  The problem with teenage depression is that we are trying to force these poor kids to fit into an insane world and wondering why their free and pure spirits resist.

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